When I was pregnant (and still now) people said "Enjoy every moment, it goes so fast".  This is so true, but I really wish someone had told me "It's ok to not enjoy it all, parenting is HARD and sometimes, its not fun and enjoyable".  Its taken me a lot of time to get over the guilt of not enjoying every single second, but since I decided to stay home, I've learned that there will be moments, days even where I just don't enjoy parenting.  Overall, it is wonderful, a blessing and so fun and enjoyable, but I really wish someone had said, "It's ok to not enjoy every second"​