​I wish I knew how to trust more friends when they said  they wanted to help more and babysit my kids.  They  knew it was a hard job to do even if they didn't had kids of their own, they  wanted to be part  of their lives. You get caught up in so much and become so over protective that you forget there are people that Actually  care aBout you and your babies. I have amazing friends, and being one of the first parents in my group gives me the chance to help them the way I should've let them.