Even as a grandmother you can feel judged by other mom friends when they ask you "what" your grown children are doing instead of "how" they are doing. Just recently I felt judged when I told someone my daughter was having a C-section. Right away, she asked why a C-section and then gave me the look of disapproval at my answer. Really, it isn't other moms' or grandmothers' place to judge how you have your baby or how you feed your baby or what your children choose to do as adults. Mommy judging is so out there and you can help make it end by being aware of your own judgmental moments. It is contagious so lets promote awareness!