In 45 days, I will have lived five decades on this planet. When you reach this age, you begin thinking about what’s left of your life. I know it sounds crazy, but it’s true. You spend time reflecting on how you got to where you are, right at this moment, and wonder where you’re going next.
I’ve enjoyed the ride so far, it’s been bumpy, there have been times I have been flipped around a few different ways, but I know, that I would not be where I am now, without all the experiences I’ve had.
This photo is my 32- year- old self. Starting my journey as a wife and a mom. Now, my daughter is 22, and if I could share with her, what I'd tell my younger self....
This is what I'd say......
Trust your gut.
Write down your passwords.
You can leave the party whenever YOU want.
No one notices that pimple on your chin.
You need to own at least three black dresses
Dance when everyone is watching....they watch and they smile, and then they dance.....(proven...at least with my experience)
Life is good, not always, but most of the time, and remember the sun rises every day
Get over your fear of public speaking
Work hard in school, but don’t sweat the small stuff.
Keep moving
Walk in the rain (but a pair of rain boots)
Embrace your imperfections
Surround yourself with a few good friends, you don’t need a possé
Read more books
Go to church (or temple, or wherever your worship)
Keep learning
Travel as much as you can.
You’ll run out of money, before you run out of places to go
Have a forgiving heart, always
Be intimate with your husband, partner (it’s important)
Be bold about your opinions
Stay tech savvy (don’t run away from it)
Say “I love you”, often
Always have a comfortable pair of jeans in your closet
Don’t be afraid to fail
Take advantage of every opportunity
Don’t settle
Treat yourself as a guest of honor, always
Don’t worry so much
Engage in conversations around the table
Laugh often
Don’t over pluck your eyebrows (my mom was right)
Treat yourself to facials Get sized for your bras (thank you Oprah)
What would you tell your younger self?
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