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Statistics are a terrible thing. According to the data, the percentage of divorces in many countries has currently exceeded 50%, i.е. roughly speaking, every second a couple is divorced.

Therefore, if you just plan to make a family or you have been together for many years already – you will find some of these tips helpful. They might either prevent you from making mistakes in the future or will even help you fix your current situation when you find yourself on the edge of getting divorced and already looking for a lawyer.

1. Learn to hear and to listen

It is very important to be able to listen to your partner and let them speak their mind (without interrupting them) while at the same time being able to hear them: their thoughts, their feelings, their desires. Be an active and empathetic listener so that your partner does feel like you care.

2. Respect each other

Everyone has their own views on life, their own opinions on this or that situation. And this is absolutely normal, because we all are different, even if in some ways we are very similar. For example, you and your partner might work as criminal lawyers but your world views are quite different regardless of your occupation.

Moreover, it is very important to accept the point of view of your partner, their thoughts without condemnation and discontent. Be mature in your relationship, understand and accept each other, even if your opinions differ!

3. Be grateful

This is a truly important skill that allows a relationship in your family to be joyful and filled with love! Be grateful to each other for everything: for the washed dishes, for understanding or for advice, for buying groceries or for taking a walk with the child in the park - for everything that surrounds you in life!

The ability to thank and appreciate what we have allows us to look at the world from a different perspective and you will inevitably be filled with happiness. Being grateful also helps overcome difficulties that come in your way and make your love last long.

4. Learn to forgive

Do not harbor a grudge as this might completely destroy your relationship in the future. If you do not like something, if your feelings are hurt, and you have caught yourself thinking that it's very unpleasant and painful to you - do not put it off, but talk to your partner, discuss what's wrong, find out why he did it or said it.

Yes, it is difficult to start such a conversation when your feelings are hurt and you want to cry because of something your partner did. However, if you do not discuss the situation and find out what caused that, you will only feel much worse. So talk!

In conclusion, we hope that you find our tips useful and they will help you preserve your relationship. However, if nothing helps and overtime things go from bad to worse and your partner say assaults you in some way, we would strongly encourage you to consult Toronto criminal lawyers immediately.

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