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Moving With Your Kids? Here Are Factors You Should Consider.

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Moving to a new neighborhood can be exciting. But it can be challenging for both parents and kids. There are many factors to consider when making the decision. Because of this, many parents may find moving daunting.

But with careful planning, it's possible to make both the decision-making and transition process seamless for all family members involved. Here are several factors you should consider.


Safety:

When moving to a new neighborhood, safety should be a top priority for parents with children. So before making any decision, all family members involved should check out the surrounding neighborhood.

Take a walk around the neighborhood and try to feel out what it would be like to live there. Are there parks or playgrounds nearby? Are the streets busy or safe? Talk to other parents in the area and get their opinions. If possible, visit the neighborhood during different times of day to get a better sense of what life would be like there.

Once you've chosen a neighborhood, take some time to get to know your neighbors. Introduce yourself and your kids and ask them about any concerns they may have. If there are any dangerous areas in the neighborhood, work with your neighbors to find ways to make those areas safer.


Future Development:

It's no secret that neighborhoods come and go in popularity. What was once the hip area to live in at one point may not be that way in a few years. So when thinking of moving, consider both the current state and the future development plans of the neighborhood.

Development can mean different things for different neighborhoods. Jennifer Patterson, a realtor, shares, "in some areas, it might mean new businesses or restaurants popping up. While for others, it may mean more schools. What the neighborhood is like will affect the quality of life for all family members".

The future development plan may also impact the availability of schools, parks, and other amenities. So think about what you want your neighborhood to look like in the future. What may be perfect for your family now may not be ideal in a few years.


Distance from Old Neighborhood:

Moving is already a big change for kids. Leaving behind friends, familiar surroundings, and everything comfortable and known can be difficult for children. Being said, the distance from the old neighborhood should be also considered when making moving decisions.

If it's close by, they can still visit their old friends and hang out at their old stomping grounds. However, this could also mean your kids might not get a chance to explore and adjust to the new neighborhood. If the move is farther away, they'll have to put in more effort to stay connected with those they've left behind. However, the adjustment process can be tougher.

Everyone, including parents and children alike, should be a part of the decision-making when it comes to moving. It is crucial that kids feel like they are vital in the process rather than just bystanders.


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