I remember especially with my first (its always worse with your first) when people would want to hold my baby. I didnt like it at all and not sure if that was hormones or what but i really resented when people even relatives would want to hold them. Of course it seems to get better the more kids you have but it was still surprising for me. Someone would offer to change a diaper or feed the baby while i got rest and i just felt i had to do it myself almost as if i would miss out on something if someone else were there. Definitely not what i expected at all!